People think they know you. They think they know how you’re handling a situation. But the truth is no one knows, know one knows after you leave them, when you’re lying in bed or sitting over your breakfast alone and all you want to do is cry or scream. They don’t know what’s going on inside your head- the mind – the numbing cocktail of anger and sadness & guilt. They just don’t know. So you pretend & say you’re doing great when you’re really not. And it makes everyone feels better. But does it change your feeling? Your pain goes away? Your smile becomes genuine?
The answer is No,We all have chapters we would rather keep unpublished. Why you believe in faking a smile? Because its very tough for you to explain to each one of them, that how bad you feel, the nights which you cried and the loneliness.
The worst feeling is pretending you don’t care about something, when really it’s all you think about. I know how it feels like, when you don’t have anyone to share your feelings with. People are their but you know that they will never understand what you are going through. Many of them are just their to make fun of it. I know it hurts but its time for you to move, why to just act like you’re happy when you’re not.
You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It wont happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.
You might not get over it but you will get through it.
powerful
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Hi a wonderful post and you way of expression its great:) and thank you for stopping by in my blog:)
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Hey Shwetha,
Yeah.. I found your post quite interesting..!
Thanks for pausing here 😉
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Thank you so much! I enjoyed reading your posts. You are a talented and inspirational writer!😊
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Reblogged this on Tales of a North Shore Princess and commented:
I totally can relate to this beautiful post you wrote. Perfectly said!!!
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Thanks 🙂
Thanks for stopping by!
Have a fabulous 2015. 🙂
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I read this post at the perfect time… for what is going on for along time because I have allowed it. Not any more!! Thanks for the inspiring words.
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Happy you found it good enough ! 🙂
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Happy the post came in for some refreshing thoughts for you. Do wonders. 🙂
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Wishing you the same!
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Thanks a lot, Much appreciated comment.
I found your blog and its interesting too. 🙂
Looking forward to read more of yours. Cheers!!
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“You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It wont happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.
You might not get over it but you will get through it.” Wow! A you did it again! I wish I had a book called “A’s Quotes!”:)
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🙂
Haha, I find your thoughts much more meaningful and touching 🙂
Thank you for pausing. 🙂
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Hi A. This is powerful writing. I especially like (and agree with) your close. Anyone this doesn’t touch hasn’t really grieved or experienced loss.
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Hi Roo!
Thank you. Thanks for pausing by here. It is always wonderful to hear thoughts from experiences. 😊
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Truth. One foot in front of the other, breathe. Thank you for reading my blog, too.
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It was nice to come across your splendid content, thanks Ekurie. 😊
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We’ve all been there – smiling when we’re crying inside – feeling lonely in a crowd. You have a host of readers who can relate. Thanks for sharing from your soul’s depth. It takes courage – and it is appreciated. You are not alone! 😘
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Thanks. There are many and many more who are hiding it in their glittering eyes and shining smile.
Glad to have you here. Thank for reading. 😊
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say thanks to so mucha lot for your site it assists a great deal
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Thank you. 🙂
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I’m actually seeing me through this post .-.
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Oh! Hope you’re okay! You’re a priority to your ownself, make yourself happy first!
Take care!!
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Great post, truly…powerful!
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Thank you! Happy that you liked it.
Hope you get well soon and all the diagnosis goes well with a happy note. Remember, someone started liking you & your feelings after reading your thoughts on web. 😊 Take care. Smile more, fighter. 😊
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Thank you..I really appreciate it!
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I feel that it is not by chance that I came across this post today and that somehow the universe has placed it in my path. These days, more and more, I find that even a fake smile is just too hard.
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I am happy that eventually the post found you! 🙂 Contrary to your saying, I find that the fake smile is in bulk, hiding something or the other behind it. Just hope for good.
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So much yes. Couldn’t agree more.
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Aww.. A hug for you!! We all need it. Thanks for reading, Bri.
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Reblogged this on K's Kryptonite.
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Thanks for sharing, Kiara. 😊
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Thanks for sharing, Michael. 🙂
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You’re welcome Sir
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Getting over it is sure never easy but I’ve learnt to deal with it maturely
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Hey Abena! Thanks for visiting the blog. Unfortunately, your comments were in spam, I just pulled them to the correct place.
You have grown up, and you know how to deal with most of the situations. Hope your heart always remains kind. 🙂
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Awww thanks a lot 😊
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I can relate to this post so much. There are seasons in life which feel particularly lonely and I am in one right now. I have friends/ family but a lot of the time I feel like the only one who truly understands is God.
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Happens to each individual, and rightly said, its a phase. Keep you chin up, be your best friend and keep expressing, things will be back to normal, i.e., all smiles back. Smile now please. 🙂
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Thanks for sharing the post. 🙂
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Want to stop feeling bad? Say Oh my God out-loud! Really like your writing. especially the poetry.
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Thank you!
I take your advise & I know it works. 🙂
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