Right. So you stay with it and experience it fully, as much as you can. You give yourself time for grieving and for processing. Then you make a choice what to think about it, you choose your perception. Do you realize it or not, you do it any way. Then you make a choice what do you want to focus on/ think about now/ your new values. That’s moving on. That’s in the nut shell.
Don’t you think sometimes you are going with the flow and at a certain period of time you realize that you have become hollow from inside! You never planned or choose to be driving on that lane. It just happened & you realized it when it was too late.
It’s in general. I am all okay 😉
The simplicity of your words capture the thought of sadness beautifully. We see the world through the lens of our emotions and many of us are unaware of that!
I’ve not written that poem, it’s a title song of a serial “Phir Subah Hogi” which I like. I agree about what you said about piya ji. If you can come up with a literate translation. That would be great 🙂
Hey,
Ah.. ok! Unaware of the sitcom.
Yea, I will definitely try getting the right words for the translation. 🙂
Will be looking forward to more form you!
You should definitely try watching the sitcom. It’s highly recommended and is a very realistic sitcom which promotes and makes the audience aware of real life issues. Also, I hope to hear more from you as well.
Sadness can also have an upside because usually the most beautiful stories or artworks are created due to a painful experience or time. This is a beautiful blog 🙂
Absolutist true! Well said.
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It creates vacuum, where it’s hard for you to see the reality.
Thanks for dropping, Jacqueline. 🙂
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I’m sorry you are sad.
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Hey Ruth,
Not sad! It was just a 2′ O clock thought. I was tried, I would say.
Thanks for the read, Stay Happy!
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I don’t know you very well, and I won’t claim to know you well. But, your poems are all very sad.
I hope that this email finds you well, and in good spirits.
Sincerely
~Alexandra Mullen Bloomsburg University
*be wise and conserve by not printing this message*
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I’m fine, Alexandra 🙂
Thank you for stopping by. 🙂
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It is.
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Sadly!
Thanks for stopping by, Jacob 🙂
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A gripping picture that matches the words. Hope you are okay!
~Carl~
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Yes, I am.
Thanks for pausing by, Carl 🙂
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Beautiful words and wonderful photograph! The most beautiful art comes from the deepest sadness sometimes.
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Very rightly said.
Thank you, Ann!
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Beautiful pictures and posts. Very sad stuff. Surly you are fine. It’s fine to be sad.
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I think temporarily, it’s fine to be sad! But when you stay their for so long then it’s like a hellfire.
Thanks for reading, Elena! 🙂
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And it addictive…
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Agree, been there.
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And it’s Addictive…
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Yea, can say!
The more you try to repel away, the better it takes you in depth. 😐
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What you resist persist.
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What you resist persists
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Resist, It a feeling of running away.. but after few moments what you realize is that you haven’t moved an atom away.
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Right. So you stay with it and experience it fully, as much as you can. You give yourself time for grieving and for processing. Then you make a choice what to think about it, you choose your perception. Do you realize it or not, you do it any way. Then you make a choice what do you want to focus on/ think about now/ your new values. That’s moving on. That’s in the nut shell.
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And than you do what you chose to do. Consciously or not. You choose it.
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Don’t you think sometimes you are going with the flow and at a certain period of time you realize that you have become hollow from inside! You never planned or choose to be driving on that lane. It just happened & you realized it when it was too late.
It’s in general. I am all okay 😉
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Agree. That why I never sure when to choose to let it flow and when to choose conscious options.
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Good to know you are ok and not suffering too much.
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Thank you for your likes! 🙂
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Ah.. They were short, simple and beautiful.
Thanks for posting!
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Well said! Perception is key.
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Thanks for stopping by! 🙂
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Thats a beautiful Thought…Simple yet Soo true 🙂 keep posting!
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Thank you Pragati 🙂
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You are welcome 🙂
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Agreed 😀
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Thanks Janice!
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True! Well said 🙂 thanks for posting!
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Thanks for pausing, Priya 😊
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phir subah hogi 🙂
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Yea,
It’s like the poem you got. It was lovely.
But I doubt about Piya ji (in my case) 😀
Thanks for dropping!
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The simplicity of your words capture the thought of sadness beautifully. We see the world through the lens of our emotions and many of us are unaware of that!
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Very well said. 🙂
Thanks so much!
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Hey A,
I’ve not written that poem, it’s a title song of a serial “Phir Subah Hogi” which I like. I agree about what you said about piya ji. If you can come up with a literate translation. That would be great 🙂
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Hey,
Ah.. ok! Unaware of the sitcom.
Yea, I will definitely try getting the right words for the translation. 🙂
Will be looking forward to more form you!
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Namaste A,
You should definitely try watching the sitcom. It’s highly recommended and is a very realistic sitcom which promotes and makes the audience aware of real life issues. Also, I hope to hear more from you as well.
🙂
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Namaste,
I will surely try to get some time to see the sitcom, there are very few realistic sitcom these days.
Thanks 🙂
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Ji A, I agree with you 100%, now a days we don’t really see those sort of shows anymore. I am sure you will like it.
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Hope too. 🙂
Thank you for sharing it. 🙂
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Sadness is a drug, and so is Happiness 🙂
Great poem!
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Happiness is drug to which you’ll love to get addicted, but not so for sadness. 😉
Thank you 🙂
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I hate sadness. It sucks! It eats up all your happiness! Like drugs.
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Unfortunate! And its pretty sad how you don’t realize that it’s a trap.
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So, true. Well said.
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Thanks for pausing 🙂
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It was short and thoughtful! 😉
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Thanks Simran! 🙂
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Sadness can also have an upside because usually the most beautiful stories or artworks are created due to a painful experience or time. This is a beautiful blog 🙂
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Thank you, Jennifer. 🙂
Yea, totally agree with you. But when it stays for long, it starts to hurt badly and then the last glimpse of hope diminishes!
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I know…sometimes it’s hard. But people who care can help lift you up 🙂
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Thank you so much for this, Farheen 🙂 🙂
Much appreciated.
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Reblogged this on Girl in Pink Soles and commented:
Sadness is a choice.
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Thanks, Jean!
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Addicted
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Take a pause, breathe in. Happiness is temporary, so is sadness.
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Ty for encouraging words but my sadness became my lifestory
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Beautiful ❤
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Thank you!
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True …
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Thanks for reading ! Have a wonderful 2024.
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You too …
Have a Happy, Blessed and Memorable New Year 2024
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