Altruistic 

She had him at a point where he would have left the entire world for her,
and then, she left. 🙂

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    2. It becomes hard, you gotta live with turmoil in your head for a long period of time.
      But yeah there is an easier option to look forward to something new, although its difficult to adapt.

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      1. Hi, A!
        I love your minimalism! You know.

        Yes, I lived with turbulence in my head for a long time when I was younger!
        And it wasn’t good at all, not for me, and not for those who lived with me.
        I can assure you.

        The scenario of his sentence seems negative.
        I thought, and how is “he” now? Not seems good.
        So I looked for a positive position for “him”.

        It seems that “she” was never held hostage by “him”.
        And “he” shouldn’t be “her” hostage, either.

        In fact, I believe, LOVE,
        whether it is a sublimation,
        whether it is a real coexistence,
        whether it is a sexual attraction,
        should NOT enslave any of the parties!

        I believe that LOVE IS DONATION.
        That is, you deliver and period. It is up to the other to understand whether the experience was good or bad and deliberate.

        Note:
        The water I drink is the same water I share.

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      5. Did you see it?

        Tu mere liye aham tha
        Iss liye tu bahut yaad aata Hai
        Aur Teri yaadon ko bhulane ka Mera pakka irada hai .
        Par dil karta hai irade pe waar
        Kyonki Dil pe nahi hai Mera ikhtiyaar

        “You were very dear to me,
        Which is why i keep on remembering thee.
        But i WILL to let go of your memories.
        Though My heart does protest ,
        And It doesn’t let my mind rest.”

        This is not a literal translation…..just an attempt at capturing the essence of the verse.

        From:

        Ikhtiyaar/اختیار

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      6. Yes. A bit blurry.
        If it wouldn’t be blurry, it would be more beautiful ….
        I guess it’s not edited. So I love the shades of the blue hour here…
        I had a painting only with these shades of blue …. And in my painting, I also had a tree just in the similar position of the frame. Mine was a pine tree ….

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  6. Perhaps the issue was that despite viewing her as his whole world, his actions and silence didn’t validate this. It’s easy for him to consider himself the victim, but maybe he was the one causing the hurt before. There are two sides to a story.

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  7. Well is her loss

    Is ok… life is full of opportunities and as they say – many fish in the sea 🌊

    Don’t miss something today, because you dwelled on yesterday

    Also is good to take time to know yourself 😊❤️ and become yourself

    Either way in life we lose one’s we love… love hurts

    Is ok – is human ❤️ and to separate from one you love is a loss

    Meant to be is better – just wait ✌️ good things come to those who wait lol 😘

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  19. Same, last year. Still hurts like a beast. But I remembered what it was like with my late husband, a giver, who was capable of genuine, deep forever love and I’m reminded that I’ll never knowingly give my heart for less again.

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    1. I am sorry for your loss. Genuinely feel it was something special for you, and it is hard.. I hope god gives you enough reasons to smile and your husband’s memories keeps you going. Take care

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  23. Some doors are best to remain close, for others to open in best ways simultaneously. Still, I do agree, A, that having an open dialogue is important to have in parting circumstances. Providing closure maybe. However, it could occur that the only closure to have … comes from oneself perhaps … in a specific context of abrupt ghosting on the part of the other. Seeing things as is, becomes crucial then, maybe … as a way of surviving the chaos that comes aftermath. Happy to read you after a long time, A. Happy writing ^_^

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    1. Thank you Sharvi !
      Earlier this week or maybe last week I particularly visited your blog to see if something new has popped up, seems you are taking little buffer to put a master piece.

      Very genuine and raw thoughts.

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      1. Thank you too, A.
        I have not written for some time due hectic schedules, just spontaneous jottings on paper to unwind. Yes, agree, some buffering too ^^. Thank you for your presence to my blog and perceiving my words the way you do. It’s your perspective that holds beauty to perceive the way you do ^_^

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