they found someone better in their way,
they were not infidel, but they did move ahead. ๐Ÿ˜

Tweeting:ย @thebrokenspecss

107 thoughts on “Unrequited

  1. If they didnโ€™t honor you enough to be true – they arenโ€™t worth your time.

    Is ok … โ˜น๏ธ … same boat. My ex was unfaithful too (among other things)

    You will heal and find better – at least thatโ€™s what I like to believe โœŒ๏ธ

    Liked by 4 people

    1. Take care!! Omatra.
      It is hard, but then it is what it is. You have to take it up on your sleeve and move ahead. Inch by inch. Day by day.

      Hope you do well with all the resources you have. Smiles. ๐Ÿ˜Š

      Liked by 2 people

      1. Yes, exactly.

        Actually I kinda think things happen for a reason?… sometimes life has lessons for you, or there is something better meant for you. I have actually become stronger (slowly,lol) … and I am happier – I wasnโ€™t supposed to stay in that, so life helped me get out and has been making me stronger and teaching me lessons (which I donโ€™t always like lol)

        But yes definitely – move forward day by day

        And thank you! I do have amazing people in my real life. I am lucky in that aspect… and definitely grabbing at resources at this moment! lol … it will be ok… I am strong and I do love my kids – it is my kids that drive me โค๏ธ

        Thank you for your words! I hope you are also doing well. โœŒ๏ธ

        Liked by 2 people

      2. It is always, one step at a time. Moment by moment. Crushing your demons and making a move towards new a better world.

        Life is a great teacher. We are all here to learn. Learn even when we feel we know everything.

        I am glad you got a good family, and your kids are your sunshine. You must be an amazing mother to them. Take care!!

        Appreciate your time for writing down your thoughts. ๐Ÿ˜Š

        Liked by 1 person

      3. Agree completely!

        You can never know everything – always learning

        Being the mother of, and raising 3 incredible amazing people has been the greatest pleasure in my life and my proudest accomplishment โค๏ธ (even with that, always learning right along with them) I love every moment of being a mother – thank you for your kind words!

        Hope you and your family and friends are safe and well – please take care as well!

        Liked by 2 people

      4. Thanks Omarta!
        You have so much insight in you, like you can cook a chapter for someone for one time meal and they will be happy to read or listen to that chapter of yours.

        I feel if you are a speaker, people will listen to you. ๐Ÿ™‚ Appreciate your response. Learned from you.

        Thank you.

        Liked by 1 person

      5. I used to be… I am sometimes with the breast cancer – only when I can help someone else

        But Iโ€™ve been quiet and healing for awhile โœŒ๏ธ

        Thank you for your words – appreciate that โค๏ธโœŒ๏ธ

        Liked by 2 people

    1. Always. It is always first you and then the rest. Because once youโ€™re complete in terms of what you are feeling, you are open for another being.
      Appreciate your comment, Ms. Awasthi. Youโ€™re deep thinker.

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Thank you.
      Good to have your thought. Sometimes you are so broken that even if they return, your feelings donโ€™t reciprocate the same way it used to. You just live in the moment and they appear just like another human. No longer the special one.

      Liked by 2 people

  2. It is difficult but it is better to move on. Your words reminded me of a relative. He and his wife have lived separately for more than 7 years but they are not divorced. I feel sad when I look at them. If they had divorced, they could have moved on. Take care, Regards

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Ah! I understand, it is weird feeling.. which between holding on and even not moving on. Acceptance is really important.
      And I recently learned that nature and god have a way where they will hint you to jump in or out of something, if you can make the judgement then, you will be doing well.

      Nice thought, Lakshmi.

      Liked by 1 person

  3. That’s called life… we should be prepared… for all the toughs… if someone is not coming to you even if you are making your full efforts it means that what God has thought for us is not that and we are immersed in its sorrow, when someone else is our best Which God has made and chosen for us. This is just some people coming in the way, the destination is still left.

    Liked by 2 people

  4. Have full faith in God. Everything that happens is written because if it does not happen then what we think will happen but it never happens. And that’s why thousands of people will come until we meet our partner, in life it doesn’t mean to shed tears for everyone. Keep some tears for your one and only true partner โค๏ธ

    Liked by 2 people

      1. Thanku fr appreciation #A…. You should not feel sorry at all nor regret that someone has left us or grieved but should be happy Rather, one should be happy that the one whom God has not chosen for us has just gone and why should you waste your time by being with that one. Instead, you should be happy alot and now look for the one who will be your companion, whom God has already chosen.

        Liked by 2 people

      2. Thanks for writing, Sonal. Appreciate your time.
        You really write it well. ๐Ÿ™‚
        I feel it is about the time one needs to understand what and why they have lost something. Once it becomes sorted, one can look forward to new life.
        The question still remains on how much time one may take.

        Liked by 1 person

      3. Its totally depend on you that how much time you want to take…. or you can say you want to give urself to heal your pain…. it totally depnds on u dear….. if u really want to look forward in ur life den frst of all we should keep this in mind that if someone is gone from ur life it means that person was just a part of ur journey not the destination…. ur destination to the right one is still remain…. if you have a aimof ur and want are on ur way to achieve it or meet ur aim at that time in the way uh will experience alot of things and uh will definitely meet many people so, its doesn’t meant that those people are ur true mate…. absolutely not…. u can’t forget that destination is still not achieved.. so… think atleast once… that if someone has gone it means she or he was not meant for you not at all dear…. if she left you now how can sure that she can be your companion throughout ur whole life??? If someone is truly loving uh she can’t leave you for a single minute trust me… once… so.. who made cried she don’t deserve uh at all… and by keeping this in mind uh please think for your future and true partner…..

        Liked by 2 people

      4. Wow, I have seen people writing intense. But you really detail things out. Its funny, but then I see your thoughts flowing. Nice Sonal.

        I agree with you. And hey, it is just a post, its not for me, it is a feeling and maybe it is relatable to many.

        I agree with your point, and one must realise that some people to come in your life for a purpose, once the purpose is completed they leave. You may try to hold onto them, but they will leave. And its fine. Then comes the time to look forward.

        It is all about the buffer of recovering healing or whatever we call it.

        Take care!! ๐Ÿ˜Š Smiles.

        Liked by 1 person

      5. Ohhh…. hihihihi I’m not saying its about you.. i commented on ur post…. I’m not saying that you have been through something like that… don’t worry… ๐Ÿ™‚………. n yea you also take care of yourself…. u have great thoughts. Imagination and also the visualization…. i respect….. keep it ahead… ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚tkcr…

        Liked by 2 people

      6. And one more thing may be your post is not about you… its okay…. i agree but if there will be someone as u said that maybe it is relatable to many…. so my words can help those who are in this situation…. and that would be great.. ๐Ÿ™‚….

        Liked by 2 people

      7. I agree. Feel free to write whatever you wish to.
        And I have a feeling, if we would have novel writing competition, you will come first. You write contents, elaborated, long ones. Haha.

        Liked by 1 person

      8. Nobody can stop the goer and the one who has gone once has no right that when his mind is back, because then we lose our self-respect And ourselves, if we keep our self-respect at the top, then everything becomes easy. Nothing should be more important for us than our self-respect dear….

        Liked by 2 people

  5. We are happy I’m happy n i want you too to be happy let them go far away from you bcz you have nothing to do with these temporary people.. i know this is hard to do so…. but they are not you true mate afterall….


      1. Hi A. Ired your comment and I was replying to it but I don’t know why and how my device hanged up suddenly and then an error occurred and it got deleted . I tried refreshing and restoring it but I didn’t get it back . I really wanted to post your comment. I am sooo sorry for it . Hope you forgive me.

        Liked by 2 people

      2. Hey, Its totally fine, Arshnoor ๐Ÿ™‚
        You never need to be sorry for what you could not control. Haha, chill! And I appreciate that you read this blog.

        Liked by 1 person

      3. As for Arshnoor it means sky light and bookshelf is really beautiful , I would have loved it if it was mine but I got it from web and I will keep writing no matter what. As for beautiful height i couldn’t get what u meant would love if u could expand it.
        Well A I hope your name starts from A but anyways would love to know it (though it’s up to you if you want to share it and if u don’t I totally respect your privacy)

        Liked by 2 people

      4. Hi,
        Nice Sky Light..
        So, I was reading as Arsh-noor, where I put in meaning of Arsh as height (to of the world) and noor as beautiful.. so was calling it Beautiful height.

        Haha, yes its because of privacy, though some of the bloggers know my name, as I changed a lot on the blog a couple of years back, earlier it was like an open book. ๐Ÿ˜€
        Thank you!

        Liked by 1 person

  6. “Maybe” is an enemy! Lwhen u hang on to ‘maybe’ it will alws be a ‘ maybe’ ; face it and make sure.
    Thanks for stopping by and giving a read in my BlogโœŒ๏ธ

    Liked by 2 people

    1. I agree with you.
      But sometimes all you are left with is a โ€œMaybeโ€, as reaching out is no longer possible.
      Has been nice reading your post, Footprints!!


    1. You seem to be the only who agreed to the post. I find many people walking different directions for it. Haha. But yea, everyone has a way of looking at stuffs. And they ainโ€™t wrong.

      Thanks, Mini World, Bigger Dreams.


    1. Thank you, Rupal! Appreciate you finding time to read some of the posts here.

      Definitely, you cannot weigh broken stuffs for long, it is hard to leave it all and move ahead, but then, to move ahead you have to restart.

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Sometimes how easily you find people moving ahead! And you are still their shattered and rerunning all those thoughts of pain. ๐Ÿ˜Š
      Thanks Bessy.

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Hello! Thank you for reading this post. It has brought emotions to you, and I respect it. I just hope, you get to reason of the unhappiness and solve them out. Love hurts at times, but it has more power to heal. ๐Ÿ˜Š

      Liked by 2 people

    1. Thank you!
      I believe its been 6-7 years, I was very active in between the journey, I am more a reader now, probably unable to recollect a thought to post nowadays. But yeah, sometime now.


Leave a Comment

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.